The Mayonnaise Jar

When things in your life seem
almost too much to handle,
When 24 hours in a day is not
enough;
remember the mayonnaise jar and
2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his
philosophy class
and had some items in front of
him.
When the class began,
wordlessly,
he picked up a very large and
empty mayonnaise jar
and start to fill it with golf
balls.
He then asked the students if
the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a
box of pebbles and
poured
it into the jar. He shook the
jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open
areas between the golf balls.
He
then asked the students again
if the jar was full. They agreed
it was.
The professor next picked up a
box of sand
and poured it into the jar. Of
course, the sand filled up
everything else
He asked once more if the jar
was full. The students responded
With an unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced
two cups of coffee
from under the table
and poured the entire contents
into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between
the sand.
The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor, as
the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that
this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the
important things - God,
family,
children, health, friends, and
favorite passions
Things that if everything else
was lost
and only they remained, your
life would still be full.
The pebbles are the
things that matter like your
job, house, and car.
The sand is everything
else --
The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the
jar first,' he continued,
'there is no room for the
pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and
energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the
things that are
important to you.
So...
Pay attention
to the things that are critical
to your happiness.
Play with your children.
Take time to get medical
checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time
to clean the house and fix the
dripping tap.
'Take care of the golf balls
first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is
just sand.'
One of the students raised her
hand
and inquired what the coffee
represented.
The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that
no matter how full your life
may seem,
there's always room for a couple
of cups of coffee with a
friend.'
Please share this with
other "Golf Balls".